In sex therapy most questions come down to two types. The frequency is more often, but not always, brought up by men. The other type is the quality of sex.
More often than not, and again not always, women emphasize the need and desire to feel emotionally connected to their partner. Men tend to agree with this statement, in principle. In practice, it seems that women want more overall connection that is expressed both verbally and through non-sexual touch.
Men often say that they want their wives and girlfriends to really want them sexually. They want that desire to be maintained throughout the years of the relationship. Men want their wives to initiate themselves rather than waiting for the man to initiate all the time.
Everyone wants quality sex. Not just more sex but better sex. Men usually want to know how to have more sex, simply because they typically have high libido. Women tend to focus on how to have better sex, because reaching an orgasm is longer and harder for women, on average. There are individual variations, of course. At the end of the day, everyone wants quality sex.
Having reliable facts about sex is key to developing a healthy sex life. However, sometimes it is not enough to have the sex facts alone. Sometimes sex counselling or sex therapy is necessary to address what is really happening in the relationship that may be affecting what is happening in the bedroom.
Whether you are having problems with erectile dysfunction, commonly referred to as ED, or find it that your partner is not responding to your sexual invitations, we provide professional and confidential sex therapy and sex education for couples and individuals. Our areas of specialization are sexual performance, sexual desire for both men and women, and sex and pornography addiction.